Our home went through some major re-arranging this past weekend. Late Thursday night, a wonderful three-piece sectional sofa was moved into our living room. On Friday, man-sized children, child number one and child number three moved various pieces of furniture around the house as their mother (me) directed. It was much like a symphony being played by an orchestra…I waved my conductor’s baton and movement would begin…ok…not quite, but maybe it was a little like that.
Old sofas were moved, chairs were moved, desks were moved, our computer was moved, a china cabinet was moved, sundry cabinets that I don’t know the official names of were moved, and pictures that hung on walls were moved. Lots of moving.
At the end of the day on Friday, I looked at all of the work that had been done and declared it “good.” I liked it. Not only do I love the sofa that can seat our entire family if we so desire, but I like where our computer now sits on its desk, where I can write blog entries and stuff. I like the china cabinet in its new home. I like the pictures on different walls. All of this change, which I behold as good, seemed to send our golden retriever dog, Ellie, into a mild depression.
As new furniture entered our house and old furniture was shifted around and her favorite couch was moved into the entry-way of our home and then out of the house completely, Ellie looked a bit dazed, somewhat confused and at times a little panicky.
As my celebratory exclamations grew louder and louder over the few days of re-arranging…Ellie began looking sadder and sadder. My husband brought home a nice, soft, fluffy doggie cushion to give her a place that was all her own…a refuge in the furniture re-arranging storm. She has laid on it a few times…when one of my children or I have knelt down by the cushion and patted it to indicate it was time for her to lie down. But a few moments later, we would find her lying in front of the cushion…seemingly mourning the loss of her favorite sofa.
I can relate to her feelings of attachment…usually I don’t like change either…I tend to push against change in my life. But, I love the new sectional sofa…have I mentioned that already…and I had awaited the day when we would wave good-bye to the three-person-used-to-be-an-off-white-color couch that turned into a sort-of-a-dingy-gray-and-stained couch (Ellie’s favorite).
I think that Ellie will eventually adjust to our household re-arrangement…probably about the time my oldest two children head off to college next month. Then I’ll join her lying on the floor in front of her cushion…lamenting the change.

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